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One Donation,

Twice The Hope

This Christmas

The Big Give 2025

Help us ensure every child facing grief is supported by their school.

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One Donation, Double The Impact

Help us hit our £25,000 target!

Between 2nd – 9th December

For one week only, every pound you give between 2 and 9 December will be doubled by our ‘Champion Funder’ and Pledge Funder through the Big Give – helping us raise £50,000.

Give before midday on 9 December, or before we hit our target – whichever comes first!

Double Your Donation

Where Will Your Donation Go?

Each year in the UK, 46,300 children lose a parent – that’s roughly one child in every classroom.

For children facing a parent’s incurable illness, school can be the one steady place in a world turned upside down. But many teachers and staff simply don’t have the training to know how to help.

The money we raise will help expand our Responding in the Moment Schools Programme – free online training that builds school staff’s knowledge and confidence to support students through anticipatory grief and bereavement.

Together, we can help schools create compassionate, whole-school environments where no child feels alone when a parent is seriously ill.

School Programme

A Christmas Riddle from Nigel Harman

Our ambassador sets a festive riddle to reveal the magic of your Big Give gift.

Watch RSF Ambassador Nigel Harman share a special Christmas Story. In this short festive riddle, Nigel delivers a playful riddle full of clues about something that grows bigger and brighter when kindness is near.

His rhyme invites you to ‘give once, help twice’ and brings a little Christmas magic to this year’s Big Give. See if you can solve the riddle!

The Impact of Last Year’s Big Give

See how last year’s donations doubled our support for families, and why this year’s campaign is focused on schools.

Hear from Kate, our Family Support Service Lead, as she reflects on the incredible impact of last year’s Big Give. Thanks to your support, we raised £45,152! This allowed us to double the number of support sessions available to families, triple the number of peer support groups we could offer, and deliver over 1,400 appointments to parents facing an incurable cancer diagnosis.

Kate also shares why this year’s Big Give is funding our Schools Training Programme, equipping school and education staff with the skills and confidence to support students through anticipatory grief and bereavement.

Double the impact

"The Big Give is a chance to make a real difference. The Ruth Strauss Foundation’s Schools Programme gives school staff the confidence to be that steady, compassionate presence when a child’s world feels uncertain. I’m proud to back the Big Give this Christmas, helping more schools become a place where no child feels alone when a parent is seriously ill".

Nigel HarmanActor, RSF Ambassador
Give Once, Help Twice

Why Your Donation Matters

Read Our Personal Stories

Every donation makes a meaningful impact. Behind each contribution is a story – stories of lives touched, support given and hope restored. Discover the journeys of those we’ve been able to support through our counselling and family services. Join us in making a difference, one story at a time.

Finding Strength Together: The Muggleton’s Story
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Finding Strength Together: The Muggleton’s Story

Jonathan & Rebecca's Story Meet the Muggleton Family Jonathan, his wife Rebecca and their children Charlie, 10, and Amelia, 12,…
October 8, 20254 min Read More
Henry’s Story: How Pre Bereavement Support Can Help Teenagers
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Henry’s Story: How Pre Bereavement Support Can Help Teenagers

Navigating Anticipatory Grief Henry’s Journey with the Ruth Strauss Foundation When faced with the imminent death of a loved one,…
December 18, 202410 min Read More
Simona’s Story: Experiences as a Parent Living with Incurable Cancer
Simona, Will and their children Sophie & Flo at a football match together before receiving support from the Ruth Strauss Foundation.
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Simona’s Story: Experiences as a Parent Living with Incurable Cancer

At RedForRuth Day in June 2023 Simona shared her experiences as a parent living with incurable cancer and finding support…
December 2, 20247 min Read More
Laura & Jim’s Story: Bringing Families Together at #RedforRuth Event
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July 10, 20244 min Read More
Victoria’s Story: Moving Conversations About Incurable Cancer Forward
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Victoria’s Story: Moving Conversations About Incurable Cancer Forward

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July 10, 20245 min Read More
Sophie’s Story: How I Support My Patients
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Sophie’s Story: How I Support My Patients

Sophie’s Story How I Support My Patients Sophie is a lung cancer clinical nurse specialist at Guy's and St Thomas'…
July 10, 20245 min Read More
Personal Stories: Hayley
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Personal Stories: Hayley

Total Shock Hayley’s Story I had been feeling unwell for a long time. I had a cough that just wouldn’t…
May 9, 20234 min Read More
Personal Stories: George Smith
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Personal Stories: George Smith

Life was about to change forever. George's Story My mum had breast cancer twice within around a three-year period. I…
December 13, 20224 min Read More
Personal Stories: Gini Harrison
Gini at the seaside with her family (Gini is a non-smoking lung cancer ambassador)
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Personal Stories: Gini Harrison

I was absolutely shocked. Gini's Personal Story I’m Gini, 41, and a mother of 2 small children (aged 21 months…
November 29, 20226 min Read More
Personal Stories: Alix Burnard
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Personal Stories: Alix Burnard

Shock & Confusion Alix's Story It started with a cough in March 2021, which didn't go away. I tested for…
November 7, 20224 min Read More
A Personal Story from Robert Salter
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A Personal Story from Robert Salter

Personal Story I was with my son Edward and his wife Jonelle in 2012 when they were told at their…
November 25, 20217 min Read More
Meet Joanna & Her Beautiful Little Girl Freya
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15 months ago, aged 34, Joanna was diagnosed with an incurable non-smoking lung cancer. She decided to share her story…
November 16, 20202 min Read More
A Personal Story from Gwyn Parry
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A Personal Story from Gwyn Parry

In 2019 I lost my mum, Heather, to adenocarcinoma EGFR mutation lung cancer. She had just turned 54. Mum had…
May 14, 20202 min Read More